I remember, I was in the second grade, and our class did a Roaring 20's production, I wore a hot fuchsia dress covered with long fringe, a long beaded necklace and danced the charleston. That was the last time I ... was allowed to .... be innately ...me. I remember in junior high being asked to be on a debate team... my dad said no. School functions and clubs were against our religion. The only goal's I was raised to reach was.... to look pretty, get married, have kids, and to be a subordinate wife. Well....... it didn't work out very well..... and here is why.